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Avoid defensiveness, be open to receiving and give specific balance feedback.

Marcus leads a team meeting to develop positive feedback approaches, but Carol presents Serena with a less-than-glowing critique. Tammy praises Casey for her support but asks her to avoid telling long stories. Dion commends Carlos for being approachable, but worries that he has encouraged Carlos’ tendency to make jokes about women in the office. Sanjay welcomes Sam’s endorsement of his opinions, but says Sam’s noisy breathing interferes with his ability to concentrate. Throughout the session, Marcus recommends welcoming feedback, staying calm and not defensive, openly discussing the problem and its impact on performance, linking the feedback to rules and agreements, asking the other person for their view and suggestions for solutions, and listening. Sam later gives Michael feedback, thanking him but also criticizing his negative tendencies, and recommends that he be more constructive. Michael praises Sam for his policy-writing skills, but deplores his habit of bringing up their personal lives during work hours. Both agree to work on their faults. Marcus advises the team to be open to feedback, but postpones the team’s opportunity to assess him.

  Key Learning Points

Giving positive feedback motivates people. Constructive feedback improves performance.

GIVE AND RECEIVE FEEDBACK OPENLY

DON’T avoid feedback
INSTEAD: Discuss feedback respectfully

DON’T only criticize
INSTEAD: Give balanced and specific feedback

DON’T be defensive or upset
INSTEAD: Welcome feedback to improve

DON’T exaggerate and blame
INSTEAD: Take responsibility and solve issues

This is available as part of

Cutting Edge Communication Comedy Series - 50 lessons
COMEDY MAKES LEARNING FUN This 2012-2013 comedy business series was created by Psychologist Eve Ash and comedienne Erin Brown.  This series will shock, amaze and entertain you, while at the same time teaching some important lessons in human interaction, in a way you won’t forget! 14 new titles relea... read more
Categories
Feedback
Leadership
Managing Performance
Release Date
Jan 1, 2013
Video Running Time (minutes)
9:00
Producer
Seven Dimensions - Eve Ash
Course ID
CEC40